Did an 11-Year-Old Girl Convince Lincoln To Grow A Beard?
Did an 11-Year-Old Girl Convince Lincoln To Grow A Beard?
On October 15, 1860, 11-year-old Grace Bedell wrote a letter to Republican presidential nominee Abraham Lincoln. She suggested he grow a beard – which he did shortly after!
During the 1860 election season, young Grace Bedell saw a picture of Abraham Lincoln and told her mother he’d look better with a beard and that she intended to tell him so. And in fact, she did. On October 15, she wrote a letter to Lincoln, telling him she wanted him to be president and that she would vote for him if she could. She also urged him to grow a beard. Grace told Lincoln he would be “much improved in appearance, provided you would cultivate whiskers.”
Young Grace further promised to convince her brothers to vote for Lincoln if he grew a beard. “You would look a great deal better as your face is so thin. All the ladies like whiskers and they would tease their husbands to vote for you and then you would be President,” she explained.
When he received the letter, Lincoln was sitting for a portrait with artist George Peter Alexander Healy. Healy had traveled from his home in Chicago to Springfield, Illinois to spend three days painting the presidential nominee. Visitors noted that Lincoln looked, “Grim as fate, sanguinity his expression, occasionally breaking into a broad grin… He chatted, told stories, laughed at his own wit – and the humor of others – and in one way and another made a couple of hours pass merrily and never once lost his dignity or committed himself to an opinion.”
During one of Healy’s visits, Lincoln began laughing uncontrollably when he opened Grace’s letter. Lincoln recounted the letter to Healy, “As a painter… you should be a judge between this unknown correspondent and me. She complains of my ugliness. It is allowed to be ugly in the world, but not as ugly as I am. She wishes me to put on false whiskers, to hide my horrible lantern jaws. Will you paint me with false whiskers?” But Healy refused, and painted one of the few beardless portraits of the future president Lincoln (as pictured on U.S. #1113).
Lincoln was so amused by the letter that he wrote back to her four days later. “As to the whiskers, having never worn any, do you not think people would call it a piece of silly affectation if I were to begin now?” Despite Lincoln’s comment, that he thought it might be odd to change his appearance, he had a full beard by the time he caught the train for the capital for his inauguration.
Grace’s letter may not have been the only reason for Lincoln’s decision to grow a beard. Another reason for Lincoln’s new fashion may have included concerns about his youth. At age 51, Lincoln was the youngest person elected President at the time, and he may have added the beard to suggest maturity.
Along the way to the capital, Lincoln stopped in Bedell’s hometown of Westfield, New York, told the crowd of her letter and asked to meet her. In later years, Grace recalled their meeting: “He climbed down and sat down with me on the edge of the station platform. ‘Gracie,’ he said, ‘look at my whiskers. I have been growing them for you.’ Then he kissed me. I never saw him again.”
Click here to read the full text of their letters and to see the statues honoring their meeting.
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18 responses to "Did an 11-Year-Old Girl Convince Lincoln To Grow A Beard? "
18 thoughts on “Did an 11-Year-Old Girl Convince Lincoln To Grow A Beard? ”
Great behind the scenes information.
I loved the story. Too bad stories like that aren’t in our children’s history books. Would draw their interest into their studies. I’m a retired psychologist and have spent many hrs talking to students.
Fantastic story! ‘Whiskers’ are cool.
Excellent. I’ve heard the story before, but nothing more than a fictional account (with no names or dates). This story has historical proof; excellent job. Thank you for the History lesson.
This is one that passed me bye. This is a wonderful reminder to Lincoln
Love it!!!! Will share with others.
Good for Gracie. She was right, Abe did look better with a beard. I am glad she persuaded him to do so.
Sweet as can be. He was one of the great President the US. Hope more to come but I doubt.
Many of us know the story of Grace Bedell’s letter to Lincoln recommending that he grow a beard. But I had never known that he actually got off the train to meet her. Or that statues in Westfield, NY, commemorate the event! Thank you for adding an even more personal touch to this story for me.
Beard or no beard, Lincoln was a great President. Too bad more people in the South didn’t appreciate that in 1861 and 1861. It’s sad that seven southern states seceded before Lincoln was even inaugurated on March 4, 1861.
Oops, make that “1860 and 1861.”
They would have most likely seceded, regardless of who was President. Civil war had been brewing for a few years.
The issue of slaves states and those that did not practice it, had been brewing since colonial times. There is a television movie that I saw years ago where President Lincoln is visiting a makeshift hospital during the Civil War. A small child (girl) takes him by his right hand and brings him over to see something she believes to be important. What is very beautiful and moving, is her innocence, she does not know who he is. The adults present know he is The President. Lincoln lets himself be taken by her. His attention and focus is on her. Absolutely emotionally riveting!!
A GREAT behind the scenes story! Keep it up!
Grace Bedell was my son-in-law’s great, great, great, great, aunt. This story is part of their family history. It kind of meshes a bit with my family history. We are related to Andrew Johnson.
I’ve read this story before but had forgotten her home tone was Westfield, NY. The main reason I remember it is that I grow up in Westfield, IN. This is a nice story about a great man and an even greater leader!
The original of Grace’s letter is housed at the Main Detroit Public Library, in Detroit, Michigan. They also have a collection of original signatures of all US Presidents and original manuscripts of Laura Ingalls Wilder, among their many historical artifacts.